Sunday, November 1, 2009

The difference between a Nigga and a Real Black Man…

TO ALL MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS OF A DIFFERENT RACE…YES…THERE IS A DIFFERENCE… EVERY NIGGA IS NOT A BLACK MAN AND VICE VERSA…ALSO….

Now you all are my brothers and I have love for all of you….BUT…this epidemic is getting out of control.

Every nigga has the potential to become a black man and every black man can become a nigga. People tend to come up with their own definition of the word nigga which is a pretty difficult task. This is probably why Webster decided just to stick with the word Nigger. Cuz believe it a not that word itself is too complex to have a one dimensional definition. However, when comparing a nigga to a black man, you can come up with plenty of ways to distinguish whether or not if you’re dealing with a Nigga or a Black Man:

-A black man say what he means, means what he say, and his actions reflect it.
- A nigga say what he feels needs to be said or what he thinks you want him to say whether he believes it or not because he think it will benefit him in some way.
-A black man knows what he wants out of life and will work hard for it (legally).
-A nigga lives day to day not really knowing what to expect from the world. And if he does know what he want out of life, he won’t grind for it (legally) or at all for that matter.
-A black man doesn’t catch attitudes and doesn’t waste time with nonsense aka the bullshit. If he is upset with a particular issue, he’s not going to bitch and moan, scream and shout, throw temper tantrums, Nah….he’s going to speak…not yell… to get his point across and if he knows theres no getting through to you (if speaking of handling an issue with a female) he leaves…either for good or long enough to let everyone calm down and for points to be marinated…and whether if he was in the wrong or not, he’ll won’t have a problem to call and get everything squared away.
-Now…as for my niggas…there are even rappers that spit “niggas is bitches”…this is so true. All the things listed above that a black man won’t do is exactly what a nigga wood do without hesitation when deal with a similar situation. In dealing with a female, constant mind games are being played. Unlike a black man he won’t leave. O no…he may step out for a minute (it just may be with another woman) but he’ll be right back on the phone sayin whatever he feels needs to be said to get you back ; this only happens when its his fault…he had time to realize what he’ll be throwin away. Now on the other hand…if it were the female’s fault he’s going to do one of two things:
-he’s either going wait for you to call and be entertained by your apologies, take you back, and always bring it up every chance he get or,
-he’ll find a reason to text or call you and ask for something he left in your car or tell you something totally off topic (like guess who got locked up) just to have you talk to see where your head is and if you’re going to bring the situation back up.
*they already know if they want you back or not…unlike a real man…he won’t just come right out and let you know.

notice the words that are italicized? see anything similar about them? they all deal with feelings and emotions rather than logic and reason.


Ima stop here. I didn’t realize how long this was and this is just the first three comparisons….ima probably need a Part III…lol…so far wat do you think of the subject…did I miss any other comparisons?...any body mad at me?...lol…let me kno…im all ears…all eyes rather… deuces!!!

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