The difference between a Nigga and a Real Black Man…

TO ALL MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS OF A DIFFERENT RACE…YES…THERE IS A DIFFERENCE… EVERY NIGGA IS NOT A BLACK MAN AND VICE VERSA…ALSO….

Now you all are my brothers and I have love for all of you….BUT…this epidemic is getting out of control.

Every nigga has the potential to become a black man and every black man can become a nigga. People tend to come up with their own definition of the word nigga which is a pretty difficult task. This is probably why Webster decided just to stick with the word Nigger. Cuz believe it a not that word itself is too complex to have a one dimensional definition. However, when comparing a nigga to a black man, you can come up with plenty of ways to distinguish whether or not if you’re dealing with a Nigga or a Black Man:

-A black man say what he means, means what he say, and his actions reflect it.
- A nigga say what he feels needs to be said or what he thinks you want him to say whether he believes it or not because he think it will benefit him in some way.
-A black man knows what he wants out of life and will work hard for it (legally).
-A nigga lives day to day not really knowing what to expect from the world. And if he does know what he want out of life, he won’t grind for it (legally) or at all for that matter.
-A black man doesn’t catch attitudes and doesn’t waste time with nonsense aka the bullshit. If he is upset with a particular issue, he’s not going to bitch and moan, scream and shout, throw temper tantrums, Nah….he’s going to speak…not yell… to get his point across and if he knows theres no getting through to you (if speaking of handling an issue with a female) he leaves…either for good or long enough to let everyone calm down and for points to be marinated…and whether if he was in the wrong or not, he’ll won’t have a problem to call and get everything squared away.
-Now…as for my niggas…there are even rappers that spit “niggas is bitches”…this is so true. All the things listed above that a black man won’t do is exactly what a nigga wood do without hesitation when deal with a similar situation. In dealing with a female, constant mind games are being played. Unlike a black man he won’t leave. O no…he may step out for a minute (it just may be with another woman) but he’ll be right back on the phone sayin whatever he feels needs to be said to get you back ; this only happens when its his fault…he had time to realize what he’ll be throwin away. Now on the other hand…if it were the female’s fault he’s going to do one of two things:
-he’s either going wait for you to call and be entertained by your apologies, take you back, and always bring it up every chance he get or,
-he’ll find a reason to text or call you and ask for something he left in your car or tell you something totally off topic (like guess who got locked up) just to have you talk to see where your head is and if you’re going to bring the situation back up.
*they already know if they want you back or not…unlike a real man…he won’t just come right out and let you know.

notice the words that are italicized? see anything similar about them? they all deal with feelings and emotions rather than logic and reason.


Ima stop here. I didn’t realize how long this was and this is just the first three comparisons….ima probably need a Part III…lol…so far wat do you think of the subject…did I miss any other comparisons?...any body mad at me?...lol…let me kno…im all ears…all eyes rather… deuces!!!

The Word Nigga

The controversy between words Nigga and Nigger (and just the word in general) has been an on going issue for decades. The actual word "nigga" can't even be found in a dictionary. However, the word "nigger" which is where the word mentioned earlier is stemmed from is defined as a "derogatory name used toward people of color." During and more after the civil rights movement, black people has been justifying the use of this word stating "Its our word...and we can use it"... What do you think???

Please exucse my Pen!...(get it...goes wit the song...any whooo)..

Ladies and gentlemen...I wood first like to apologize if my language offended any one....within this blog the usage of the words nigga, bitch, and tings of that sort will be frequent. to lessen the offense, I wood like to state that they are being used correctly to speak against the ones that are being prosecuted for their reckless behaviors, and ignorant mentally...well who the hell are you to judge?...somebody just said that and i will be more than willing to answer that for you...this is all generally speaking...i am speaking to no one in particular...now...if you feel too similar to the nigga or bitch that I am speaking about then I apologize in advance. I say all of that because i need no beef with no one. This is a positive outlet for those who feel the same fustration i feel that is plauging our communities and are willing to come up with solutions to solve these issues. So to get the ball rolling...my first few blogs will be about wat it is i am trying to say which will contain language that fits the subject at hand but however may be found offensive to others....

PSA ANNOUNCEMENT

THIS IS NOT A MAN BASHING SOCIAL CLUB, LESBIAN COALITION, OR ANYTHING OF THAT NATURE…. This is simply a movement of awareness for my sisters of every race, nationality, religion, and creed about this epidemic that has been plaguing our communities across the nation for decades. Please, read this public service announcement carefully… There is an epidemic currently plaguing the population of the black male population. It is an affliction that has become so common, mature black women are able to diagnose a man with it at first glance. It’s called “Ain’t Shit Syndrome”. And while there are proven treatments, there is no cure at the present. For those of you who are unfamiliar with this syndrome, allow me to break it down. It would probably say something like this if listed in the latest edition of a medical dictionary: Ain’t shit (adj): [eynt-shĭt] 1. Term used to describe a black male exhibiting behavior such as laziness, unwillingness to work, frequent/habitual weed smoking, disregard of commitments, abusiveness, ignorance, cheating, lying and other similar negative behavior a. An A.S.S. nigga is generally a negative human being 2. denoting a man usually very attractive who can’t/ won’t get his act together; also very good at deceiving women into believing he is better than what he truly is 3. overall triflin if you are with a man who shows signs of having being an A.S.S. victim, encourage him to seek help immediately as this can also be detrimental to your health. With the right treatment, your man could possibly: -get off his ass, -get a job, -offer to pay for some things, -return phone calls, -educate himself, -stop creepin around, -and maybe even put a ring on it. Potential side effects include -no change at all -short term change only, -worsening behavior, -or termination of the relationship. Ladies…keep in mind…even with help, A.S.S. niggas are incurable. Long term remission is possible however, there is always a chance it could return. If it does prove successful and your man enters the “reformed dog (remission)” stage, keep a watchful eye in case any signs of A.S.S. return. In this event, you may want to seek the advice of a trusted girlfriend to help you determine if a second trail is worth it. Continuing a relationship with a man suffering from being an A.S.S. victim could cause on your behalf: -Extreme stress -emotional pain -credit card debt -exposure to a STD -unwanted drama or worse Weigh the benefits and risks before deciding to undergo this process with your partner. In an effort to find a cure, we encourage all women to stay away from any man diagnosed with Ain’t Shit Syndrome. Although we are desperately in search for a cure, it appears none is in sight.

Originated by Mani B.

Edited by Crache-Renee